Welcome to Lafayette-Equine Therapy
Welcome to Lafayette equine therapy
My name is Elaine Tyley and my passion is to educate and enable people to understand their horses, to ask the question WHY? why is my horse behaving in this way. If you no the answer then you can learn to understand your horse and improve your relationship.
How many times have you been told:
"That Horse needs to be taught a lesson"
"Give it a good hiding andshow him who is boss"
"They dont feel anything"
These are just a few phrases, but if you are reading this web-site you have a horse with a problem or a relationship problem between the two of you. You must be thinking there has to be another way if only they could talk......
There is another way and they can talk through me they are talking to you now loud and clear - the buck, kick, bite, behaviour problems, stress and anxiety and you have taken the first step now take the second once your horse has been
treated questions will be answered and problems solved.
PEOPLE HAVE SAID:
"Thankyou for opening my eyes more then before, and helping me enjoy my lad"
" harry is fantastic and just looks so relaxed he seems to be improving each day today he trotted round the sandschool (on his own) sound! "
"wow!! Everything you have picked up from her is totally accurate. I have been feeling a bit disconnected recently and i could kind of tell things weren't right between ro and myself. She has faith in me and thats means so much. Ps i hope one day, i can repay you for your help"
I am based in the beautiful Cerne Valley in the rolling Dorset hills but I travel all over the uk. I am a natural Equine Healer and Communicator and have spent since the year 2000 studying our beautiful equines. Their spirit, communication, beauty and their herd dynamics much can be learnt from these higher beings and mother nature and the beauty around us.
Learn to be in the moment with your horse and dance with your horse at liberty and feel their energy, a beautiful place to be no thoughts so no emotions just the purity of nature and the most beautiful partnership between man and horse.
EQUINE THERAPY
People ask me to explain exactly what I do to horses, it is a question that I am not very good at answering but have given it a lot of thought because it comes up more and more.
I am an animal communicator it is not something that I have trained to be but simply what I have always done. My ability to communicate with animals is often better than with people.
My healing hands, this again is something totally natural when I was 30 I met someone who straight away told me that I needed to use my natural ability of healing inherited from my Nanny and help horses. The horses needed me, I knew I had the ability to communicate but the hands that was something new. So I studied for the next 12 years to try and understand my healing hands and what I could do with them. During this time I healed many horses but still felt that something was missing I didn't want to just heal I wanted to provide a completely different approach and for this I let the horses guide me. I studied all forms of Natural Horsemanship and asked the horses what they thought. I went to competitions and listened to their opinions, I went to a hunt meet to stand and listen, x-country, dressage all the events that we took horses to.
The results were amazing, the whispers and screams heart breaking and I promised that in someway I would try and make people listen. Some think I am a fruit cake but slowly things are changing for me and the horses. Last Summer I took the step of handing in my notice at work and giving myself to the horses, from then on Spirit became a very big addition to my life. They have joined forces with me and guide me on everything that I do. So what do I call myself? I am a spiritual healer but this title sometimes scares people, I work with energy within the body slightly more acceptable. But what it has become is a counselling service, sometimes for both horse and rider.
I write up some of my visits for people to read on here and on my website and people email to say they enjoy my stories. But unfortunately they are not stories, they are case notes feelings as real and roar as yours or mine but, they belong to the horse.
So you see everything you read is as real as a person revealing their inner most turmoil Some funny a lot distressing and many sad all of this is revealed during the therapy session. I start all therapy sessions by talking to the horse and asking if they would like my help. I then carry on communicating with the horse and locating in their body where the emotions are held from past trauma. I then explain to the horses owner exactly where the horse is stiff which would be the better rein I tell them the character and personality of their horse and then dowse over the horses body so that they can see the reaction of the pendulum over the blocked areas.
I then start to heal the area. It is like a rose with layers of petals the first layer is the energy block in the body, you heal the block which is their for protection it enables the horse to put up a barrier to stop the pain, their owners see this barrier as a bite, kick, anger, miserable etc. to me it is the barrier to the emotion. Then I peel back the layer revealing the emotion behind the block revealing the roar emotion and the next layer the cause. Sometimes this could take a few sessions, during the whole time the horse is licking and chewing and yawning releasing the block to the universe. Sometimes they will be reliving the fight and anger with me and I may be pulled around knocked into walls as the anger is released.
At the end of the session the horse can be exhausted it takes a lot of energy to release but by doing so the horse can relax in every way. Mind, body, muscles and some even lie down and fall into a big sleep.
By releasing the energy blocks and counselling them through the event that has caused it I bring them peace. The owners see the difference and feels the difference not only on the ground but also when they ride them, the stiffness has gone the body and mind is relaxed and the owner understands their horse and begins to work with the horse and their relationship will never be the same again. The session opens their eyes to who their horse is, not an animal to be dominated and abused but a being that feels more than you can ever imagine. The emotions that are released during the session also forces the owner to break the emotional barrier and release their anxieties as well.
So you see my journey has barely started destinations unknown, So I guess I should describe myself as the horse counselor for mind, body and spirit because when they are allowed to speak their world becomes a better place.
Love and healing to all the horses keep calling and I will come............
Be Kind
1.Weaning from my mum can be hard - please be kind - weaning over a period of time is kinder than just taking me and locking me in a stable.
2. Please do not expect me to understand your ever command from field of friends to stable and human is a huge step - please be kind.
3. Horses communicate with energy, love and understanding it can be learnt by humans if you would take the time - please be kind.
4. The human voice is harsh and loud, often angry, if I do not understand your human ways does this make me wrong? - please be kind.
5. Saddles, bridles, injections, teeth being rasped all a lot for a young one to take in. Please be kind.
6. The work is going well I have learnt the human language! then a lorry and a cheque and a whole new set of rules. Please be kind.
7.Will you love cherish and form a bond with me stronger than anything else you have ever known? My life is likely to last 20-30 years separation from you and my friends will be hard - please be kind.
8. Will you learn my way the horses voice? the horses energy? and partner me on our life's journey?
9. My way where there is no need for whips, spurs and brutality and humans dominating horses but a partnership the meeting of minds and a journey, destination unknown. But a journey that can be beautiful and sad, for life is our journey and if we ride it together we can both be kind.
10. Will you be there at the end? we will know when the time is right, my journey will be at an end but yours can continue with all that I have taught you, it will be time for you to be kind to another and continue your journey..
I WILL BE AT THE FOLLOWING EVENTS
SAT 23RD & SUN 24TH JUNE WHOLE HORSE WEEKEND BRECON
6TH 7TH & 8TH JULY HEALING WEEKEND AT SECRET WORLD WILDLIFE SANCTUARY SOMERSET
